15 signs that a man will not change you
You earn the same
A recent study by American sociologists and psychologists has shown that those couples who bring equal salaries home are true to each other. According to American experts, a partner who earns more has more chances and temptations to spend money on someone else. In addition, in a situation of monetary equality, partners do not feel disadvantaged.
“You can’t argue with scientific research. Surely all is. I think the whole thing is an equal distribution of responsibility, a feeling of a real partnership. ”
He is an extrovert
An extrovert is less inclined to succumb to someone else's influence. He manifests all emotions openly and can say firmly “no” to himself (or to someone).
“At the same time, an extrovert likes to talk more. On the side including. I would not bet on loyalty to extroverts. ”
He is emotionally satisfied.
A man needs praise: he wants to know that he is not only loved, but trusted and appreciated. Studies show that most men cheat on their partners because they are looking more for emotional rather than sexual satisfaction.
“It's true: it's important for everyone to feel their value and importance. This is one of the basic needs. Seeking your own worth can lead to another woman. ”
He rarely gives you expensive gifts.
As the girls admit, frequent expensive gifts suggest that the guy is ashamed of something and he is trying to atone for it.
“Oh, those girls! Does not give gifts - it is bad, gives - also bad. And then we are surprised at the mockery of our logic. Girls, do not attribute bad to good deeds, take gifts with pleasure! "
He grew up in a big family
A man who has brothers or sisters is used to caring for others. He is not selfish in his actions, knows how to listen to other people's words, is emotionally ready for disputes and conflicts (he has the experience to resolve them).In addition, if the parents of a young man are still happy together - the chances of your couple becoming exemplary increase.
“Pay attention to the history of adultery in the family. How are things with parents and sisters? Is it normal in his parental family to be normal, something without which there is no married life, or is it something for them that contradicts the values of the family. ”
The first goes to reconciliation
He is ready to be the first to admit a mistake, to propose a compromise, trite to apologize - this suggests that a man is interested in the future of your relationship. By the way, indifference emphasizes more interest in you. After all, even if the favorite person in the heat of the moment will say too much, but then he is ready to apologize, he says that he clearly doesn’t care.
"If a man does not even go to reconciliation, but is open to talking about his not very pleasant feelings, this already means that he is more inclined to clarify the problems and solve them than to look for joy elsewhere, having closed himself."
He is attentive and interested in your work.
Even if these are ordinary routine questions, even if he understands little in the specifics of your work, confuses the names of your colleagues and does not know the boss by sight.He is genuinely interested in your life outside the home - naturally, without fanaticism!
"Why not. Interest is a manifestation of love and care. ”
Feel free to talk on the phone with you
The first alarm is when a man moves to another room, to the balcony, to the bathroom to answer an important call. This is where the grain of mistrust is born, which makes particularly impressionable girls conduct an audit of all calls and SMS of their boyfriend.
“This is a classic. Of course, everyone is familiar with signs of suspicious behavior during a betrayal. Just don’t be in a hurry to blame: maybe he is preparing a surprise for you or hesitates to talk with your mum with you ”.
True to my habits
He always wakes up at the same time, is faithful to his culinary tastes (or rather, loves everything you cook), prefers a certain perfume, listens to your favorite music ...
“I would say, the emergence of new habits may suggest a thought. If your man suddenly has a new favorite song, some new jokes, new hobbies, think about where he brought it from. ”
Talking about your future together
He has long known how many children you will have, how they will be called, how and in what school he will blush at parental meetings. He pensively reflects how he will drive football with his son and go fishing. A couple of years you need to change the apartment; By the way, he already knows where to buy wallpapers cheaper ... He sees your future together, he often plans something ahead of time, be it a repair, buying furniture or a radio-controlled plane for his son.
“Alas, unfortunately, this is not always an indicator. Many men manage to make the most serious plans for you and to have nothing meaningful hobbies for them at the same time. ”
Loves when you take care
It does not irritate him, and even touches to some extent. By the way, very often the guys show off to their friends and colleagues, showing carefully folded containers with lunch or a pink scarf with hearts tied with the other half.
“That's right. If a man is not shy about showing your care for him, most likely he has nothing to hide. He doesn’t have to seem like a lonely macho to someone. ”
Calmly responds to your comments
He responds with humor to your comments about scattered socks and crumbs in bed, or the hippo continues to scatter and crush with persistence and calm. Do not rush to get angry. This is an extra argument for your boyfriend's loyalty. He is used to your comments, he is not annoyed about trifles and is not looking for a reason to quarrel. He's just fine with you!
“His calm here speaks more about such traits as tolerance and tolerance. But the presence of these features does not guarantee his loyalty. "
He is not jealous
More than once life situations have shown that the most ardent and almost pathological jealous people themselves turn out to be walkers to the left. As they say, on their own measure. Of course, there is no relationship without jealousy, but everything should be in moderation. It would never occur to the faithful man to check the phone of his beloved and ring up all subscribers with male names, calculate the time of movement from a stop to the house, with an addiction to interrogate about the past day.
"It's like that. On a thief a hat is really often burning. By the principle of projection, a man subconsciously expects the same from you. ”
Wakes up calm in the morning
For a man who leads a double life, morning is a real brain puzzle. He frantically tries to remember in whose apartment he is: his wife or his mistress. Hysterical attempts to put everything in a single puzzle and urgently turn on the memory give out running eyes and a dumbfounded look. Easy yawning (albeit ugly), but a faithful husband is more valuable than gold.
“Here we are talking about a completely entangled pathological liar with frankly double life. If a man changes not so hard, you will not notice any concern in the morning on his face. ”
Good to your parents
It is not necessary that the guy called the mother-in-law mother, rushed to visit her or called her every day. It is enough that your beloved treats the family with great respect, takes the trip to the parental home calmly, is ready to help in some domestic or life situations. Of course, everything depends on mutual understanding, but if a man behaves deliberately aggressive and unrestrained (even if even for his eyes), it is worth considering whether he is looking for a reason for conflict.
“You should not mix everything in one pile.His dislike of your parents certainly has very different reasons. ”
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